Dr. Arthur Brooks on Instagram: "In a marriage, many things matter. But there is one need that, if unmet, can quietly erode the bond over time. For women, feeling uniquely adored by their husband is not about flattery or romance in the abstract. It is a signal of commitment. Adoration communicates, “You matter above all others. I am here. I am choosing you.” When that signal fades, it can feel like the foundation itself is weakening. This is not about grand gestures. It is about consistently con