Before you download another dating guide… Before you second-guess yourself again… It helps to understand what actually works now. A lot of dating advice sounds right, but it was built for a different time: before apps, constant access, and the kind of burnout many people feel around dating today. That’s why I’m hosting The Year of Love, a free live masterclass happening January 20 and January 22 at 11 AM PST / 2 PM EST. In this one-hour conversation, I’ll share what truly creates attraction, con
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Before you download another dating guide… Before you second-guess yourself again… It helps to understand what actually works now. A lot of dating advice sounds right, but it was built for a different time: before apps, constant access, and the kind of burnout many people feel around dating today. That’s why I’m hosting The Year of Love, a free live masterclass happening January 20 and January 22 at 11 AM PST / 2 PM EST. In this one-hour conversation, I’ll share what truly creates attraction, con
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Oversharing in early dating happens more often than you’d think. While it’s great to be honest and vulnerable, the truth is, at this stage, the person in front of you doesn’t need to know everything about your past. In fact, sharing too much too soon can backfire—it might make them feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, causing them to unconsciously pull away. Have you ever caught yourself doing this? Let me know in the comments! | Matthew Hussey
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Oversharing in early dating happens more often than you’d think. While it’s great to be honest and vulnerable, the truth is, at this stage, the person in front of you doesn’t need to know everything about your past. In fact, sharing too much too soon can backfire—it might make them feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, causing them to unconsciously pull away. Have you ever caught yourself doing this? Let me know in the comments! | Matthew Hussey
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There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Watch the full video on my youtube channel or by heading over to MatthewHussey.com/blog Watch on YouT
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There’s a mistake nearly all of us make in early dating . . . and it’s something we don’t even realize we’re doing. When we get nervous, we naturally slip into one of two masks as a way to protect ourselves against rejection. In today’s new video, I’ll show you how one simple change can not only hugely increase the connection you feel with someone, but also take the pressure out of early dating. Watch the full video on my youtube channel or by heading over to MatthewHussey.com/blog Watch on YouT
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Do you struggle to be vulnerable in early dating? Tell me in the comments xAnd if you want to become one of my members and be coached by me and learn how to effectively communicate what you want without scaring someone away, you can go to JoinLoveLife.com ❤️ | Matthew Hussey
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Do you struggle to be vulnerable in early dating? Tell me in the comments xAnd if you want to become one of my members and be coached by me and learn how to effectively communicate what you want without scaring someone away, you can go to JoinLoveLife.com ❤️ | Matthew Hussey
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Have you ever ignored this red flag in early dating? Tell me what happened in the comments. And if you want help on how to navigate your own early dating situation, I have a tool that will give you personalized advice whenever you need it. Include the code “ASKMH” in your comment below and I’ll send you the link with all the details. (I also have a special Black Friday offer that’s only on until midnight tonight, so don’t wait!) | Matthew Hussey
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Have you ever ignored this red flag in early dating? Tell me what happened in the comments. And if you want help on how to navigate your own early dating situation, I have a tool that will give you personalized advice whenever you need it. Include the code “ASKMH” in your comment below and I’ll send you the link with all the details. (I also have a special Black Friday offer that’s only on until midnight tonight, so don’t wait!) | Matthew Hussey
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What makes someone truly irresistible in the early stages of dating? In this week’s new video, I share four powerful ways to boost your attractiveness in the first weeks of getting to know someone . . . so you can create intrigue and keep things moving forward. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching now (and let me know what you think in the comments). | Matthew Hussey
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What makes someone truly irresistible in the early stages of dating? In this week’s new video, I share four powerful ways to boost your attractiveness in the first weeks of getting to know someone . . . so you can create intrigue and keep things moving forward. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching now (and let me know what you think in the comments). | Matthew Hussey
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One of the reasons we lose ourselves in early dating, invest too much, and become too obsessed, is because we've stopped seeing someone as a person, and started seeing them as an angel. Watch this clip through, and tell me if you've ever been guilty of this in the comments. Making someone too important early is one of the ways we sabotage ourselves when we are looking for commitment. If a loving, committed relationship with someone you can build with is something you want, there are some key rea
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One of the reasons we lose ourselves in early dating, invest too much, and become too obsessed, is because we've stopped seeing someone as a person, and started seeing them as an angel. Watch this clip through, and tell me if you've ever been guilty of this in the comments. Making someone too important early is one of the ways we sabotage ourselves when we are looking for commitment. If a loving, committed relationship with someone you can build with is something you want, there are some key rea
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Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone—even when we don’t really know them yet. Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s video, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating. Tap the link in my bio or head over
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NEW VIDEO IS OUT 🚨 Early dating has a sneaky way of turning us into versions of ourselves we don’t even like. You start off calm, confident, grounded . . . and suddenly you’re overthinking texts or pulling back in ways that don’t feel true to who you are. If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t like who I am with this person,” there’s a reason for that, and it’s not because you’re broken. In this week’s video, I break down how early dating so often goes wrong without anyone meaning for it to. More imp
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There’s a shift that can happen in the early days of dating—one that, if we’re not careful, can derail the natural attraction that’s building. It starts with excitement: imagining a future with someone new and amazing. But then we raise the stakes in our mind. A delayed text makes us anxious. We overthink, overcompensate, and try to secure the connection, creating an energy that can push someone away. The key? Slow down. Lower the stakes. Let things unfold naturally. The right person will choose
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Is modern dating changing us? In what ways do you think it's better and in what ways is it worse? To check out the full short film (and all my videos), go to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GJBqATUt_A | Matthew Hussey
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Done with confusing dating? Comment “LOVE” and come get a plan at my free event “The Year of Love.” It’s happening next week. Don’t miss it ❤️ | Matthew Hussey
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In today’s brand-new video, I share 5 tips on how to approach the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person. (FULL video on YouTube: https://matthewhussey.co/t-5723) P.S. There’s still time secure your spot on the Virtual Retreat, happening June 2 - 4. Head over to MHVirtualRetreat.com now to speak to my team of Retreat Specialists to find out more about how you can join us this June. | Matthew Hussey
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Have you ever found yourself in this texting trap? Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. . . In my brand-new video, I break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone’s inconsistent behavior, this video is for you . . .
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NEW EPISODE IS OUT! What if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this new episode, Audrey, Stephen, and I get very personal . . . We also unpack: 😩 How anxiety sabotages relationships, from early dating to long-term connections. ⛓️‍💥 The roots of anxious attachment. 🔨 Practical tools for calming your mind. 🗯️ How to stop catastrophizing when things feel uncertain. If you’ve ever felt tortured by your thoughts or struggled to stay grounded when dating, this episode will help you fi
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Becoming a dad recently made something click for me that I’d been circling for years: Choosing the right partner might be the single most important decision you’ll ever make. It shapes your finances, your health, how you parent, and how you handle life’s hardest moments. And yet, modern dating has made it harder than ever to get this right—too many options, too many clichés, too much conflicting advice. In my newest video, I give you a framework I’ve developed to help you cut through the noise .
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